So riddle me--that is, us--this:
"[name yer sexact] is inherently sexist, and therefore preaching against it is for womens' own good"
"gaysex is inherently degrading, and therefore preaching against it is for the poor deluded souls' own good."
Oh, that's a totally rhetorical question, by the way. We realize some people may want to come along and protest, but we are pre-emptively dismissing them because as we understand it, they all belong to a posse of some sort, and have an Agenda, and are generally up to no good.
Further, they might want to introduce such things as context and nuance into the discussion, and we hate that shit.
So when we say,
"Shaking your finger at other peoples' sex lives is inherently homophobic*,"
we aren't terribly interested in hearing your arguments to the contrary. We are all about the empathy here, and the empowerment and self-respect of You People; which means, "you listen to us, if you know what's good for you, and stop whining as though we're trying to take your toys away." LALALALALACAN'THEARYOU
Also, we observe that your fly is undone, and you have a grease stain on your tie.
*oh yah, and: inherently sexist. And misogynist. And puritanical. And proto-fascist. And just plain assy. -Inherently-.